Communicating when need more time
- if unsure about something and need some space to think it through, say that
- If something was sprung on you and you think it deserves more attention, say that.
- Tell them you need to look into it and get back to them
- If your gut is a no, but you aren’t sure why, say that. Just say what’s up - “my initial response is a no, but let me think about it and I’ll get back to you later.”
Disagreeing
- Work to increase comfort w/ the discomfort of disagreeing
- Journal about why you feel the discomfort w/ disagreeing that you do
- When we disagree, it doesn’t always mean the other person is wrong, it just means you see it differently than they do. That’s not an insult to them as a person. It’s being honest. And it’s how we grow, it’s how we build, it’s how we sharpen ideas, companies, technology, etc.
- Use journaling to try and reshape how you think about disagreeing 🙂